barry and michelle patterson

Who Wants A Catfish Sandwich? (Merry Christmas)

After you read this, you might want one.  In fall of 1996, we were sitting in a Cracker Barrel in Fort Worth, Texas, and Michelle was eating a catfish sandwich.  She was pregnant with our firstborn at the time and she ate them every chance she got. On this particular evening, we were engaged in a serious discussion (we'd been talking seriously and praying for months) about quitting our day jobs and pursuing music full time.  We were feeling the pull to fully be who we felt like we were called to be. We felt like God was leading us in this direction.  We were full of faith and hope for our future.  We were saying to each other that we just had to say we had tried, in our lifetimes, to do what we truly felt called to do.  We were young.  We were crazy. We were naive.  We were pregnant, for pete's sake! (Kids, we don't recommend this as a prime time to leave your steady income).  We had no idea what we would come up against in the years to come. Nevertheless, the desire to live the adventure trumped all of the other factors and over a catfish sandwich, we cheerled each other into a decision....we would do it.

Fifteen years of life, children, music and ministry have passed since then.  The seeds of hope and faith God planted in us years ago are alive and well! We have weathered some storms, like everybody else. We have lived through hurts, breakthroughs and startling revelations of God's love.  After 15 years, we know some things we didn't know back then.  We know what we forfeit to pursue this calling. We know more of our own Kingdom value.  We know that when we stand up walk in our calling, it hacks the enemy off. We know that God takes care of us.  We know that God never changes.  We know that God can do anything.  We aren't young, naive or pregnant anymore, but we are likely still crazy.

As God is opening up a new season of music and ministry to us, we have been reminded of that night in Cracker Barrel so long ago.  Here we are, 15 years later, still wanting the same things...still wanting to be who He has made us to be and still willing to risk things to follow His lead.  We are more in love with God and people and that is because of God's faithfulness to us. We have had 15 years to count the cost and we still want in!

So it is with the ambience of a warm, dimly lit Cracker Barrel that we announce our upcoming project, aptly named, "Catfish Sandwich"!  We have a bunch of exciting music and ministry ventures in our hearts for 2012.  If you would like to know more about them and simultaneously receive a burned copy of our first run at five songs from "Catfish Sandwich" please email Michelle at ascensionarts@mac.com. Send  us your mailing address and we will send you a packet with infomation about our upcoming projects along with the cd.

Merry Christmas friends!  We pray that if there is a catfish sandwich moment in your history that you are needing to return to, that you will receive the grace to do it!!

Blessings, 

 

Barry, Michelle, Russell, Ivy, Elliott & Samwise

 

Waking Up With McWhorters And The Great Radiator Exchange

KAP AND WENDY MCWHORTER

We have known Kap and Wendy McWhorter for almost 15 years now.  We met them at Vinelife in Huffman, TX in 1997. Vinelife was a home away from home for us for the better part of that decade and we have many friends from our times there.  You know when you meet folks that you immediately like but you both have so many small children that you never actually get to know each other?  That's kind of what it has been like for us with them.  We have both, as families, both been in the same stage of life for so long.  So, when we see each other, we smile at each other from across the room and wish we could ever have a decent conversation.  When we knew they were on the tour schedule, we were excited at the prospect of the time with them AFTER the concert.  What would it be like to put children to bed and have an uninterrupted adult type of conversation?

Well, it was awesome.  And a long time coming.  Their house show crowd was warm and responsive which made for an all around glow.  I (Michelle) put on my stretchy pants and we stayed up way too late for Wendy, who teaches a Dirt Bag Boot Camp at the crack of crack in the morning.  We talked about kids, Jesus, Galatians, families and the church. We laughed a lot.   It was everything we hoped it would be. :) 

And here enlies, potentially, the best part about what we have the privilege of doing on a house concert tour.  When you stay with a family, lounging in your stretchy pants 'til the wee hours, you make a connection you would not make if you packed up your gear and loaded out at 10.  When your breakfast together in your jammies with a gaggle of kids, you know stuff about each other that you wouldn't know if you were waking up in your hotel room and shuffling down to the hotel buffet.  If we really are going to be about relationship, this "waking up together" scenario will remain of value to us.  We are so grateful that people will make up a bed for us, throw a quiche in the oven and fire up the coffee for us.  We are so grateful that this week, after so many years of knowing Kap and Wenday, we finally got to sit up together and laugh and talk.  Invaluable.

The next day we finally decided to deal with our radiator issues.  We had been pouring coolant into our van every few hours on driving days, due to a terrible leak.  We exchanged ashes for beauty in Kingwood and got a brand spanking new radiator.  We are so thankful that God provided the resources for us to take care of it and that we had a day off to get that done.  Now, with a back door that opens AND a non-leaking radiator, we know we are better off than most travelling musicians.:)

On our day off, we rested at our friends, the Maynards' place. We did laundry, ate Mexican food, blogged, did school work, played the piano and watched some Bethel dvds. More stretchy pants, more laughing. Also, Barry may or may not have walked six miles in silly shoes back to the Maynard's house while the car was being fixed.

 

What Do You Do When Nobody Shows Up? (abiding with allison and the nixes)

We have been playing for audiences for most of our lives and have, of course, felt the pressure to HAVE an audience. When folks show up to hear you play, whether it is in a living room, a church auditorium, a coffee shop or a bar, it always feels better.  It is an easy ego feed to have a sizeable audience.  You could easily validate yourself with numbers, whether the event ended up being meaningful or not.

For those of us who have plugged along in music as a ministry, there is a different economy we have to learn to tap into.  It is a Kingdom economy where people and their hearts are the priority.  It is an economy where externals like numbers and timelines are secondary to what God is doing in any given moment.  As it says in Ecclesiastes, we can make all of the plans we want to all of the time, but God will be doing what HE wants, all of the time. Wouldn't we rather find out what God is doing and jump on THAT bandwagon, than push for our own agenda, that may never accomplish a Kingdom work?

Case in point.  One night in Deep Ellum in 2003, we loaded into a bar with a well-rehearsed band. We had advertised well and felt prepared to give a great show. Nobody came for the first twenty minutes of the show.  Then one solitary girl walked in and sat down directly in front of center stage.  I (Michelle) felt my heart leap towards her.  From the moment she walked in, I felt like I was singing every word of every song for her.  Indeed, I was!  She hung around afterward to talk and it was obvious that this encounter was meaningful for her, perhaps moreso than if she had been one of many.  I didn't walk away from that night feeling like I wished there had been 50 more people, I walked away invigorated that God would go to such trouble to arrange a private concert for someone who needed words of life sung over her so badly. I am sure my performer ego took a hit, which is never a bad thing.

Another case in point, last January, on the Swan Song tour, we booked a house show with new friends and promoted the show well. Hardly anybody came and we performed kind of sloppy set in an uber casual environment.  Our host had gone to much trouble to prepare for the event and she and I were both kind of mystified that folks didn't come out in droves. :)  We were sitting around afterwards with our friend Marsha, who had come out for the show, getting to know our host a little better. Our hosts told us about their journey with infertility.  It was a heartbreaking story for us to hear and we were moved on their behalf.  It just so happens that infertility is a huge piece of Marsha's story and God has moved radically in her life and given her two sons, when she was given no hope.  She was able to encourage our friend and we all prayed together for God to do the same thing for this family.  She conceived within two weeks and gave birth to a beautiful, answer to prayer, little girl a few weeks back.  If there had been a ton of people there that night, hanging out and chatting afterwards, such an intimate conversation would not have happened and those prayers would not have been prayed.  There is not a chance that I would trade that encounter for a crowd.

His ways are higher, His priorities are more beautiful and His ideas are more miraculous. We are learning to trust His ways, His priorities, His ideas....Him. The more we walk with Him, the less we care about crowds and the more we are falling in love with the miraculous purpose of His agenda.

Two days ago, when we showed up at one of our favorite places in the world, The Abiding Place, where our friends, Bob & Teresa Nix live, we were just so excited to be there. The Abiding Place is a retreat center, a counselling hub and a surefire place of rest for so many.  We have played there before to a good crowd and we were excited about the night.  We knew we would be free to be ourselves with a group of like minded believers. Allison Cornell was coming in to open for us and we were excited to meet her and hear her music.

Nobody came.  Let me rephrase that, crowds did not come.  All kinds of last minute things came up for folks that had rsvp'd and when it was 20 minutes past time to start, two sweet ladies were sitting in the living room, up for anything.  We decided to do a "casual" house concert...that means uplugged and sitting on the couch.  Allison shared some of her beautiful music and we loved every minute of it.  She sang a song about family that you will probably hear us sing soon.  We sang a few songs and some of the songs moved us all into conversation about things God has brought us through.  We connected with Donna and Vanessa, our two attendees, in a way we would not have if a bunch of folks had shown up.  When the "concert" was over, we stayed in our spots on the couches and just talked.  We shared some of our heartaches with Bob & Teresa and soaked up their wisdom. The next morning at breakfast, coversation picked up where it left off and the Nix's, Allison Cornell and the Pattersons got down to the heart of several matters over pancakes and bacon. Teresa did a craft with our travel weary boys and we rested and recouped. We received faaaaaar more than we gave and that, most certainly, was not our agenda.

His agenda is for me, as well. So many times, on a night where we assume that we will be the ones giving out, we are the ones who end up doing the bulk of the receiving.  God economy is rooted in love because that's what He is.  Why fight that kind of an economy?  It's an adventure, it defies wordly thinking and pulverizes our pride. So, what do you do when nobody shows up?  You chill out, try to tap into what GOD  is doing, and enjoy the ride.

The Sharps & The Door Whisperer

We scooted on out of Dallas after the second service in a hurry to get to Kirbeyville for a house show at our friend's, Jay and Kathy Sharp's place. Per usual, Samwise talked non-stop until two miles from our destination.

We unloaded in the dark while the boys made a b-line for the trampoline full of Sharp (and neighbor) children. The trunk door to our van has been permanently locked for five months. In order to make the trip in the van, we have been loading in through a side door and removing a seat from the van every time we loaded or unloaded. Michelle was explaining the situation to Billy, a Kirbeyville fellow who was helping us unload. He made his way to the back of the van, punched the door like Fonzy and it flew open. Halle-stinkin-lujah!!! Our life got a whole heckuva lot easier with one swift punch! Billy trained us in the ways of punch opening and we are now opening our trunk and loading in like any other normal travelling musical family of six. Billy, The Door Whisperer, you can have free Barry and Michelle cd's for the rest of your life.

You know that feeling you get when you walk into someone's home and you know you are cut from the same cloth? That's what it was like for us to be in the Sharp's home. We met them almost a decade ago in FW and we had a good connect even then. We could tell, as their people filled up their living room, they live in the same kind of community as we do...one where you are family, bloodlines or not. We could see that they are well loved and that they love well. The Kingdom of God is alive and well in Kirbeyville.

Jay and Kathy are preparing to record in December and we asked them to play a few of their own songs to open the night up. A highlight of the night for us was Jay, standing there in his socks, singing a fabulous song about how the devil will get his butt kicked. No shoes required. Our friends Rodney, Kathy and Meredith Moore came out from Beaumont and fit right in. We talked about grace and sang about the goodness of God. We laughed and worshipped and had a really good exchange with the Kirbeyville family.

We slept a tad late, awoke to an amazing breakfast and got in a couple of hours if great conversation with the Sharps. No pretense needed, we just dove right in. We talked about life, loss, grace and Jesus. Our kids were so sad to leave and Samwise tried to sneak Rosa, the chihuahua into the van.

Be sure to check out www.jayandkathy.com and watch for their new project at the turn of the year. Kirbeyville, we can't wait to see you again!

Dallas

We had a fabulous Saturday night in Dallas with our friends, Josh and Krista Miller. We met them in church circles in our DFW days and we were excited to be a part of what they are doing in Dallas. After a fun jaunt for Sam and Michelle on the DART system, we set up for a house show in the living room of their new abode, flanked by their babies (dogs) Harvey & Brooke. Michelle has been doing some songwriter coaching with Josh via skype through www.recordingbazaar.com, so she bossed him into doing several of his own songs to kick the night off. Almost everybody in attendance that night was new to our music, so we felt blessed that they would take a house concert risk like that. We spoke about walking away from bitterness and about the Galatians-ish outlandish grace we have in Jesus. It was a warm night and we were excited to meet new folks. A special treat for us that night was that a few of our youth from Bethesda showed up. It made us feel old, but it also made us feel cool that they still wanted to hang with us.:)

We were up early for a jaunt into Josh and Krista's world to help lead worship for two am contemporary services at Highland Park United Methodist. We learned new songs (real quick like) and had the really cool experience of singing our song "Smile" with a choir. We relied heavily on teleprompters and enjoyed their well rehearsed band! Thanks, Josh and Krista, for letting us be a part of what you do.

It's been a long time since we have played in Dallas and we were glad to be reunited.

We opened for The Choir/Kerosene Halo/Michael Roe (Superfan Puts Her Cape On)

Via a facebook event invite, we found out that our buddy, Doug Leavy, was doing promotional stuff for a concert in Colorado Springs with The Choir and Michael Roe (The 77's) and their collaborative effort, Kerosene Halo. I (Michelle) pretty much hyperventilated because, as a 1991 high school graduate, I was a hard core fan of both of those bands and I couldn't believe they were coming so close! Doug graciously offered us an opening slot and I am still trying to think of what awesome thing we can do for him to thank him.

It was so, so cool to hear these guys play again...not like they have ever stopped. Their classics still moved me (and made me wish I could still get away with wearing crushed velvet leggings, leather boots and some variant form of tunic) and their new stuff hooked me big time. They were still amazing, still funny, still kind and still approachable. These guys are great songswriters, (yeah, you may have heard of a little song Steve Hindalong, the drummer, wrote called "God of Wonders":) stellar performers and warm communicators.

Maybe the best part of the night for me was when they said that that have been doing house show tours. What? Just like me? Maybe the winds are a changing and a venue that we have chosen for accessibility has all of a sudden become cool. (Obviously, if they are doing it, it has!!) As we left the house today for a twelve day Texas house show tour, I know I felt cooler thinking about those guys doing the same thing.

We finished up a little EP to take with us on this tour just this morning. Barry was mixing while I was packing the van. Tomorrow we get the awesome opportunity to hang out with Shane Bernard.

Lucky (or maybe unlucky?) for Shane Bernard, I seem to have turned a corner last night in the way I act around famous people. My nervous custom prior to last night has been to act too cool for school because I have no idea what to do. I know that if I start talking, idiot fan girl will babble on incoherently, so I just plaster myself to my seat, or a wall, and act like I couldn't care less about being there. (For verification ask my mom how I acted backstage with Amy Grant or ask my friend, Christi Bovee how I behaved at a breakfast with my favorite writer, Ken Gire.) But last night, I got over myself. I let my giddy out and ate the whole night up like a skinny puppy. I smiled non-stop, idiot girl babbled on, I stalked Steve, Mike and Derri for pictures and I gave them my cd's. Shane B, get ready, super fan finally put her cape on last night.

Texas bound. Come on out ya'll!!

 

We are so excited to be headed back to our mother ship, the great state of Texas, for a November tour!  Please come and see us! Here is a link to our dates. There are plenty of shows to choose from.  We even have a Sunday morning the 20th open if we can serve you and your fellowship in any way!  Email us at ascensionarts@mac.com and we will make it happen!  If you wanted a date on this last tour and didn't get one, we are coming your way again in January and March, so let us know and we will be in your LIVING ROOM! 

Watch your inbox for news about our upcoming tours, cd projects and a house concert documentary we will be working on! 

Here 's a song we wrote last week, in anticipation of our Texas tour.

Here is a link to fabulous blooper commercial we made for one of those dates.  Enjoy. :)

Gearing Up For Baton Rouge With a Cyber-Cowriting Session!

We are seriously excited about getting to Baton Rouge.  There is an amazing community of artists in Baton Rouge that we really love.  We always do a show together and this time will be no different.  Luke & Emily Ash, Barrett Black and Abigail Campion will all be on hand to winsomely woo the crowd.  We are going to be a doing a little collaborative music as well, including this little diddy we have been working on with Abby.  We have been sending ideas back and forth for a few days and here is what we have so far.  Who knows how it will morph between now and then, but we thought we would let you be privy to the process.  Viva la Baton Rouge!

 

What A Good God @ Artlife!

Artlife was beyond awesome for us!  We spent the week hanging out with artsy-fartsy teenagers who love Jesus.  This may now be my favorite people group.  They don't have the life long hang ups most artsy adults are saddled with.  They aren't afraid to try anything, they sponge up information, they can go for hours and hours and what you see is pretty much what you get.  I helped Jason Nix with some songwriting classes and taught a class entitled "What is Worship?"  And every evening, when all of the day's activities were at and end, I led the kids in a little bit of a more spontaneous worship experience.  I chose a song with a simple chord circle and called out the circle to all of the instrumentalists, or passed around a simple chart.  I taught the chorus to the singers and drama folks.  We cleared an area in the middle of the floor to see what might happen.  We encouraged them to express themselves to God however they wanted do.  This video is from the first night that we tried it.  Normally, we think it is a little weird to film people while they are worshipping, but we are so glad to have this footage.  We are inspired by the freedom acted on here and we hope you will be too.  These are precious kids and if you want to go to Artlife camp in Waxahachie, Texas next year, go on ahead and mark off July 9th-13th, we WILL be there.

 

The Entire Patterson Music Library In One Place!

Cd Baby has served us so well over the years.  They host the music, sell it, digitally deliver it or ship it.  They provide html for banners and now they have upped their game by creating an html widget to sell your music, that you can post anywhere.  They deliver our music to Amazon, itunes, rhapsody and a whole bunch more.  We love them, you should use them.  Here is a rocking widget with every single song we have every put out there.  One stop shopping, folks.  Enjoy!